Tuesday, 2 October 2012

La Fete et J'ai Mal au Pays: Day 3



Today, the children told me off for using a knife to spread my jam instead of a spoon (?), told me off for using “vous” instead of “tu”. They have taken to grabbing me at every available moment. It’s nice; I’m practising French that much more, I’m so aware that I wouldn’t be without them, because it is so easy to talk to Olivier. But it’s tiring, and I’ve never had that much stamina when it comes to menace children.

I met Estelle’s father and her brother, Raphael. Estelle’s brother was playing MC Solaar today and I pounced because it is one of the only French bands I know, so I managed a stilted conversation about it. Success!

On the downside, my English is going down the drain- I keep trying so hard to think in French and then when I settle down to write this or do my assignment, English doesn’t come quite as fast as usual. I suppose this has to be a good thing. But I’m scared about teaching, that I’ll become bad in two languages and be completely useless.

And I miss home. Was playing cards with the girls- both of whom were cheating (les tricheurs) and I didn’t have the French to mediate the fight. That’s what gets me the most- Estelle asked me something and even when she repeated it, I had no idea. So I apologised and told her how I hated not knowing words, not understanding. And for the first time, she smiled at me. She said that she knows what I mean, her English is worse than my French by far (I don’t think it’s true but she is more embarrassed because Olivier is so good). Homesick in French is literally missing the country. And it makes so much sense in this situation.

Olivier showed me around the house a bit more, there is an outside building that they are in the middle of renovating and they want to do most of it next summer. They are slowly building all the walls up again by hand. It’s gorgeous. Next summer will be the carpentry. It’s a beautiful property and perfect for them, it’s so far away that the children can run around and Olivier and Estelle don’t have to worry.

Olivier’s sister Marie-Laurence came around, with her two children, Victoire and Lucie. We had a huge Sunday lunch (have I mentioned how good the food is? It’s AMAZING). We ate outside, next to the first wall that Estelle and Olivier fixed in the house. It’s a bit bumpier than the others, but they love it. I was fairly quiet at lunch, just watching the craziness. M-L’s children are very calm compared to Olivier’s. Lucie is gorgeous- doesn’t speak a lot, but is so so polite. Then we all lay in the sun drinking coffee and sleeping and reading and talking (well, they talked) while the children played on their bikes. Estelle and M-L talked about turning the outdoor house into a guesthouse, a pool house (they do not have a pool, M-L wants them to build one) or an apartment that they will rent out. Raphael and Gabriel slept on pillows in the yard. It was all fairly picturesque.

Later, we gathered our things and went to the medieval fête on the other side of St Pierre Racan, their village. There was so much going on. So many children and friends of the family, I wandered by myself some; there was this amazing stall with a guy who was making egg cups with an old fashioned machine- there was one made out of banksia wood and I have honestly never thought banksia was pretty before. Of course, I didn’t take my camera. We stayed there for a long time, looking at the stalls and watching the performances. Tiny children dressed as knights and fighting a straw man was a definite highlight.

More eating, more sleeping. Early start tomorrow.

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